Ahh, this is married life…

Posted by Wendy on Sunday Nov 15, 2009 Under Personal

I feel like this is the first weekend Albie and I have relaxed after getting married. Nothing major hanging over my hand. I got to relax and spend some quality time with Hubby.

I didn’t expect to spend so much just on wedding photos. Vince did a great job snapping over 700 shots on our wedding day. He recommended this site, Mpix, to get our photos developed. I also got sets printed from Snapfish and Kodak Gallery. Even though Mpix is more expensive, photo quality is definitely better. I scavenged a bunch of picture frames from my parents’ place, so that took care a lot of costs. Got my larger prints yesterday and spent the entire evening after dinner organizing them into the collage frames. All this while Albie played Disgaea 3. I wish game developers would allocate a higher budget on music. It wouldn’t kill them to have more than one track running on continuous rotation playing for hours and hours…

Now I have to finish all the thank you notes before we leave for Ohio for Thanksgiving.

But before that! Winnie’s ex-coworker and I are organizing her and Eric’s baby shower this coming Saturday for Baby Mason. Albie and I went to Pottery Barn Kids and bought a bunch of stuff. That cunning saleslady coerced me into buying another matching item to the collection. She knows aunts and uncles won’t say no to their nephews…dammit.

Been spending some quality time with my other sister Patricia (I’m helping her file her taxes). Her dog Bahamas is just too cute. Too bad she doesn’t understand the words that are coming out of my mouth. And she can’t talk back.

Current Mood: (relaxed) relaxed
Current Music: 君はいないから (Kimi wa Inaikara) - 嵐 (Arashi)
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The deed is done.

Posted by Wendy on Sunday Oct 4, 2009 Under Personal

Woohoo!

Current Mood: (relieved) relieved
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The mothership is landing…

Posted by Wendy on Saturday Oct 3, 2009 Under Personal

The last moments of my single life, and I had some new experiences:

  1. Seeing my boyfriend of 10 years puke for the first time after drinking a wee bit much.
  2. Washing my car (which was already scrubbed clean earlier during the day) at 2:30am to eliminate the incriminating evidence.

Fej thought my car was 2-door and tried to get in the back seat by shoving forward the front seat, with Albert already seated. “Fej, what are you doing? There’s a door in the back!” Albie was a bit squashed.

Drunk, puking people were a lot more fun when they’re not your husband-to-be. But, I guess it had to be done. Stupid high school friends, grrr…

Current Mood: (good) good
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T – 1 day

Posted by Wendy on Thursday Oct 1, 2009 Under Personal

Relatives from Canada are coming in. Gown & tux are fitted and picked up. Primping is starting.

Bridezilla is starting to come out (soory sweetie)…

I can’t wait to get married. I really can’t wait til after I’m married. When it’s just Albie and I frolicking at home in our undies.

6 lbs of prosciutto sounds like a lot of meat. Reminds me of when Giada was in Italy at the prosciutto factory with the lard slathered meat hanging in a line.

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Starting to get nervous

Posted by Wendy on Sunday Sep 27, 2009 Under Personal

Thought I could get most things done and out of the way by today. But seems like there’s still so much left to do.

Maybe I should look into sleeping pills. Feel like I haven’t been sleeping very soundly.

Period = Hell

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7 days to go…

Posted by Wendy on Saturday Sep 26, 2009 Under Personal

…and I’m sick! SICK!

Must be from that bastard at the mall who coughed right on my face. I was so pissed.

Oh well. Let’s hope I’ll fully recover in a week.

I’m so looking forward to Albie’s birthday!! Food and football (blah…) with the boys on one day, spa & more food the next day. Woohoo!

All these goodies that I’ve, errr…we’ve always wanted but just couldn’t put his money down (muahaha). Thank you so much!

Current Mood: (sick) sick
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My sleeping schedule is so f’ed up

Posted by Wendy on Sunday Sep 20, 2009 Under Personal

I shouldn’t have gone to sleep with Albie at 9:30pm last night. My brain started spinning up and I was lucidly dreaming/thinking about wedding stuff. Then I woke up, realized it was still middle of the night and tried to lure myself back to sleep. Of course I immediately started full on thinking about the wedding. So I gave up sleeping and here I am.

Now I fully understand the joys of hiring a wedding planner. Finding the vendors myself wasn’t really that much of a pain in hindsight (I’m sure a planner would’ve helped a lot). But it’s the little voices in my head trying to please myself, my parents, Albert’s parents, our relatives, friends, guests, the guests’ kids, trying to make the day run smoothly without making my event coordinator hate me. Had we hired a planner, maybe some of the little voices and thoughts that spring up from all different directions in my head may have been eliminated.

All the more reason to not get a divorce and get remarried be stupid silly and get our vows renewed any time in the future. I don’t think I can do this again.

A massage and a clean slate on my mind are much needed right now…

I can’t wait for this wedding to be over. I think I’m the least excited bride ever (and I don’t think my future mother-in-law is happy about that). What I’m really looking forward to is the weekend of Albie’s 30th birthday!!!

Current Mood: awake
Current Music: The ticking from the moving hand on the maneki neko
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Counting down the days now…

Posted by Wendy on Wednesday Sep 2, 2009 Under Personal

No more traveling or other events in the way now, it’s just smooth sailing (hopefully!! *crosses fingers) until the wedding. It’s a little over a month from now.

I felt pretty good when we got all our vendors booked and deposits paid before we left Taiwan in mid-August.

Taiwan was a lot of fun because all we did was eat and shop. I didn’t buy anything but tea and teaware. Oh, and a 小籠包 cell phone strap from 鼎泰豐! We went there thrice: Once at the original store with Albert’s uncle & aunt, and twice at the basement of SOGO for two consecutive days. The 小籠包’s there are unbeatable. They’re so juicy and tender. The skin is so thin. I like to eat them with a little bit of sliced ginger and a good bit of vinegar. The shrimp fried rice was pretty scrumptious too.

We went to Taiwan with two items on the agenda: 1) Go to Joy & Richard’s wedding banquet at the Grand Hyatt; and 2) Have dinner with Albert’s relatives and family friends. The banquet was like a Cirque du Soleil show, minus the acrobats. Joy’s parents pulled out all the tricks in their (money)bags and brought a circus show to life, including a live band, epilepsy-inducing flashing lights, flames, and countless number of staff. The food was pretty good, considering there were 600+ mouths to feed. Dinner with the relatives and family friends was pretty impressive as well. Albert’s grandpa is 88 and looking quite healthy. It’s great that Albert’s mom still keeps in touch with her elementary school and college friends. A pity that no one in Taiwan can make it to our wedding, but quite fortunate that we were able to meet them. So both missions successfully accomplished!

Right after Taiwan we scrubbed the house clean to welcome Albert’s parents back to California. We ate on the dining table about twice after they left in June, and we started eating on it again when they returned. We barely cooked rice, and if we did it was 2 cups at most. The first day Albert’s parents used my trusty red Zojirushi 3-cup rice cooker it was filled to the brim. Big red is such a little trooper. Gambare!

Now it’s just the finishing touches for the wedding. RSVPs are almost complete. We’re starting to receive some wonderful gifts from our registry. It is just so exciting!! I’m so happy people are buying things that I really would like to receive but just can’t put my money down on them, like the Cuisinart 1o-piece stainless steel cookware and the saute pan. Albert wants to leave the gifts unwrapped so we can take a photo of the mountain of generosity at the end. But I just want to unwrap the gifts once I get my hands on them! But after I look at the items, I obediently put them back in their respectful boxes and put them in the pile on the kitchen counter. We can still take a photo of the gifts; they just won’t be prettily wrapped.

Today I went to the bank today with my parents. I’m borrowing some bling from my mom for the wedding that needed to be retrieved from the safe deposit box. When she and Dad got married, the default gift was gold jewelry. So she received lots and lots of yellow gold necklaces, rings and bracelets. I’ll be sporting some of the bracelets she wore on her wedding night, along with a pair of bracelets that Albert’s mom gave me. She told me her mother-in-law gave them to her for her wedding. A family heirloom, just like in the movies – how cool is that?!

OK, this is getting too long. And Albert’s saying it’s loud… *pfft* So I bid you adieu.

Current Mood: (tired) tired
Current Music: Helpless Night - Crystal Kay featuring Akanishi Jin
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Yipee!!

Posted by Wendy on Friday Jul 31, 2009 Under Personal

I just sent out the invitations. I hope they make it OK. It’s almost like sending your kids out to school, not knowing what will happen to them.

Current Music: テゴマス - キッス~帰り道のラブソング~
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Just a little over 2 months away

Posted by Wendy on Thursday Jul 30, 2009 Under Personal

I hate getting my period. Symptoms have been gradually getting worse and worse every month. Sucks.

Can’t believe I’m going to be bloated, crampy, and sore on the week of the wedding. Not looking forward to that.

Planning is picking up speed. We’re almost done with preparations. It’s finally getting kinda fun!

Joy and Richard’s wedding was fantastic. The good was good, the bad was also good…for me at least. :) Dos tacos, por favor!

Addendum: Just a bit ago…

Albert: Are you sure you’ll be on your period on our wedding day?

me: Yes, I’m sure.

Albert: There’s nothing you can do about it?

me: Not really.

3 seconds later

me: Well, we can get pregnant between now and then.

Albert: That can be arranged.

Current Mood: (sore) sore
Current Music: 嵐 - Once Again
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